Negotiation —
Some More Basics
By: Samuel Wampler
Reprinted from March 2003 ohioconstructionlaw.com
Last month we introduced the subject of ADR,
Alternative Dispute Resolution. Of the several tools
available for resolving disputes, negotiation emerged
as the most commonly used. Approached properly,
negotiation offers a cost-effective means of reaching
resolution over issues that can otherwise bog
down a construction project.
This column mentioned two common styles of
negotiation: positional bargaining and principled (or
interest-based) negotiation. Both styles have a place
in the world of ADR, but I hope to demonstrate that
principled negotiation is the more rational of the two,
and will usually (but not always) produce more
satisfying results. This month we will begin an
examination of the negotiation process, and over the
next several months we will analyze negotiation as
both an art and a science.
First, a Scenario. Imagine you are the Superintendent
of Always Rosy Schools and are in the process
of building a new middle school. The project is a
little behind schedule, but your Construction Manager
assures you that when winter breaks everyone
will catch up. Before you know it, it is June, and you
are nervous because completion in time for the new
school year is obviously in jeopardy. A meeting is
set for the first of next week. You will be sitting
down with the Architect, Construction Manager and
five prime contractors, most of whom are pointing
fingers at each other by now. What will you say?
How will you approach a solution to the problem?
First, let’s look at a few basics, and then we’ll come
back to Always Rosy.
The Importance of Fundamentals. As we all know,
in addition to sophisticated design, special skills and
hard work, a successful construction project requires
ongoing resolution of a wide variety of disputes.
While planning, designing, and constructing a project,
you encounter opportunities for gain and risks of loss.
The difference between success and failure may turn
upon your ability to identify these moments and respond
to them promptly and efficiently. You will make
many decisions under the pressure of time as the
project continues its march toward completion. Have
you ever thought about how these many critical decisions
are actually made? What processes ensure a
good and effective decision? Read on and you will
see how these decisions are always the result of a
negotiation—if only a negotiation with yourself.
What can you do today to be a more effective negotiator?
Like learning any new skill, you have to study
the fundamentals and then practice, practice, practice.
We all know how to drive a car. But can we
maneuver like a Formula I driver? Of course not.
These drivers spent years learning the basics of road
racing and countless hours developing their skills.
Negotiation is no different.
Everyone is an accomplished negotiator on some
level. Negotiating skills begin shortly after birth.
When you wanted something as a baby, you might
have cried or screamed. You learned quickly how to
get what you wanted. While you did not know exactly
why, by creating an unpleasant situation for your
parents, you were likely to be rewarded with comfort,
caring and lots of attention. What you probably
didn’t realize as an infant was that by creating such
an unpleasant situation, you were actually offering
your parents peace and quiet—assuming they understood
how to respond. You cried; they held you. You
received warmth and comfort; they received peace
and quiet—albeit momentarily. But this lesson was
short-lived. As you grew older, that approach probably
led to an opposite result.
Over the years, we develop our own style of negotiating.
Our style will be shaped in part by our personality.
However, our style will also be shaped by what
we learn about the negotiation process itself and how
seriously we work to develop our negotiating skills.
Most of a lawyer’s time is spent negotiating. Likewise,
in the construction industry, a great deal of time
is spent negotiating. Contractors, Construction Managers,
Architects, consultants, field workers, and
Owners all negotiate during a project—some of them
every day, all day long, and some more effectively
than others.
A Different Perspective. A Construction Manager
may view a problem only from the perspective of the
Owner, focusing almost entirely on getting what the
Owner wants from a particular negotiation. Understanding
what the Owner wants and striving for the
Owner’s goals are important. But it is equally important
to understand what the other party needs (not
wants) from the negotiation and how to deliver that
in a way that is acceptable, whether that other party
is the Architect, a contractor, or perhaps even an adjoining
landowner.
Said another way, negotiation is simply the process
of learning what the other party needs and how to
provide it in a way that is best for you (or in the case
of the Construction Manager, for the Owner). Nothing
more. A successful negotiation results when
you are well satisfied and the other party finds
the resolution acceptable.
Effective negotiation involves many aspects:
Trust – Be trustworthy, not trusting.
Patience – Don’t rush the negotiation, or you
will overlook opportunities for mutual gain.
Attitude – Stay positive and try to avoid being
reactive.
Knowledge – You can’t know too much about
the problem or too much about the other party’s
interests. Probe for information; information
is power in negotiation
Listening – While your message is important, it
is just as important to understand the other party;
there is no substitute for careful listening.
Communication – Make sure you understand
and are understood; miscommunication can
destroy a successful negotiation.
Structure – Plan carefully, research information
important to the negotiation, and follow your plan.
Understanding the dynamics and process of negotiation
empowers you to negotiate effectively. It is a
process you can master; and yet each negotiation
should teach you something and should improve
your skills.
Positional bargaining is the old mainstay of negotiating
styles, although its utility is dwindling with the
advent of principled negotiation (discussed below).
The positional negotiator relies on concealing interests,
maintains a challenging attitude, prefers to talk
only about what he or she wants, and engages in a
winner-takes-all approach.
Here is a classic example: Joe responds to an ad in
the classifieds for an antique car, for sale by Bill.
Bill wants at least $5,000 but thinks it is worth more;
however, he mentions no price in the ad. Joe wants
the car, but he doesn’t want to pay too much for it.
Joe is satisfied that the car is probably worth $10,000,
but wants to make a steal if possible. A positional
negotiation would begin something like this:
Joe: Bill, I saw your ad. That old beater looks
pretty tired—what are you asking for it?
Bill: I’ve had this old timer for 20 years and
hate to let go of it. What will you give me?
Joe: How about $2,000?
What can happen here? Several things. Bill might
accept, in which case Joe will suspect there is something
seriously wrong with the car. Or, while Bill
might have accepted $5,000 for the car, he could be
so offended by Joe’s low-ball offer that he counters
with $15,000 in an attempt to regain his dignity.
At this point, neither party has a clue about what the
other party wants or needs from this sale. This is the
nature of positional bargaining. It is risky. Bill and
Joe are miles apart with no hope in sight of closing
this sale. Why? Because neither of them took the
time to find out what was driving the other in the
negotiation. They are locked in a battle of wills. Even
if they succeed in making a deal, chances are one or
both of them will leave the negotiation with bitter
feelings and a measure of distrust. If this was a onetime
negotiation, it might not matter so much. But,
in the construction industry, the same people must
negotiate over and over again. They must trust each
other to maintain the type of relationship that
successful projects require. In such a situation,
principled negotiation can be most helpful.
Principled negotiation is a process with several
advantages:
It separates the people from the problem. The
negotiation should address the issue, not the
people. By concentrating on the problem, parties
can maintain a good working relationship, a key
ingredient to problem solving.
It focuses on both side’s interests, not their positions.
A position is what a party states it wants
from a negotiation. An interest, on the other hand,
is the reason for taking the position. A principled
negotiator works hard to identify both party’s interests.
Shared or common interests are especially
important, as they make good building blocks for
a successful negotiation.
It explores various options with a potential for
mutual gain. Principled negotiators abandon assumptions
and seek creative solutions. They are
willing to throw ideas out on the table
without committing to them.
It uses objective criteria to legitimize
choices that lead to agreement. Any
resolution should be tested to see if it is
fair, using standards that are generally
recognized as legitimate. An example
might be the Bluebook in the case of a
used car’s value. In construction, it
might be R.S. Means’ pricing guide, or
comparison to similar projects.
Suppose that Bill and Joe were principled
negotiators. The negotiation might have
gone something like this:
Joe: Bill, that is really a nice car you
have there. How can you bring yourself to
part with it?
Bill: Well, Joe, my wife has been sick and
needs an operation. I am raising all the
money I can.
Joe: Wow, I’m sorry to hear that. How does
the car run?
Bill: I’m glad you asked, because it does have
a problem with the transmission and I haven’t
had any luck finding parts for it. If I could
find the parts, I would fix it and sell it for a
lot more than I am asking now.
Joe: Really? How much do you think it is
worth as it sits?
Bill: Probably at least $5,000, but I need to
get a little more for it, if possible. By the
way, are you a collector or a dealer?
Joe: I am both. I keep some, and I resell
some. It is both a hobby and a part-time business
for me. How much do you need
to raise for your wife’s operation?
Bill: We’ll need about $7,000. Sounds
like you know a lot about antique cars.
How much do you think it is worth?
Joe: Probably more than you are asking
for it to the right buyer, especially
if you could fix the transmission. By
the way, what exactly is wrong with the
transmission?
Bill: There is a chipped cluster gear
that makes a terrible sound in third gear.
I’m afraid it will ruin the entire
transmission if I don’t fix it. You don’t
know where I could find a replacement,
do you?
Joe: Yes, I do. I have one sitting around
my shop. That is one of the reasons I responded
to your ad. I have a lot of parts for
this particular model.
Bill: Do you have any idea what the car
would be worth if we cleaned it up a little
and fixed the transmission?
Joe: I read a report last month that said such
a car would be worth in the range of
$10,000—$15,000 in excellent condition.
But I’m not really that interested in keeping
it. Suppose I loaned you $7,000 for your
wife’s operation and took the car as collateral?
I can replace the cluster gear and clean
it up. I’ll offer it for sale, and if we sell it we
can split the profits after returning my
$7,000, plus the costs of advertising. What
do you think?
Bill: That sounds great. Here are the keys.
Now this might sound a little rosy, but it shows how
learning about each other’s interests can lead to a
win-win result. Let’s examine: Joe was nice to Bill
and focused on Bill’s interests as much as his own.
While Joe may have appeared as a buyer, he was really
trying to make use of his valuable spare parts
and had no interest in keeping the car. Bill, on the
other hand, really needed to sell the car and knew it
was worth a lot more than he was asking for it. While
Bill was lucky to find Joe as a buyer, Joe was equally
lucky: Apparently Bill’s car was rare enough that
Bill couldn’t find parts for it. Bill’s car turned Joe’s
old cluster gear into gold.
Had Joe started off as a positional bargainer, he might
have offended Bill and lost a deal. Bill might have
lost a sale to Joe because of his pride. They each had
something the other wanted and needed, and by engaging
in a dialogue before beginning the bargaining
process, they were able to uncover mutual gains. This
is the result of principled negotiation.
Your Homework, Should You Choose To Accept
It. Applying these principles with certain other
fundamentals of negotiation will help you reach fair
resolutions to problems with your construction
project, and reach them in a way that will maintain
good working relationships. Now, back to Always
Rosy. How would you approach the meeting? Give
it some thought and jot down the interests of each
party, as you perceive them. Is there anything else
you need to know in order to proceed? Can you think
of any creative way to provide most of what each
party needs without anyone having to sacrifice?
Next month we will look at differing perspectives in a
construction project. We will also explore common
goals and areas where the parties may find common
ground. Planning a successful negotiation requires
effort to understand these aspects of the problem at
hand and to achieve a fair and just resolution. Check
in next month and see how everyone can win at the
Always Rosy Middle School.